US - Losing gamble
Author: Walker, Adrian
Source: Boston Globe
Published: Dec 21, 06
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BOSTON – Bruce remembers vividly what it was like to be a compulsive gambler during the holiday season.
He felt lonely and isolated, he said yesterday. Not to mention that he often needed money, and gambling seemed like the logical way to pursue it.
“You want to be happy at the holidays, and that can only be achieved, in your addicted mind, through gambling,” he said. “In some psychological way, gamblers feel that money is the solution to your problems. For gamblers, that’s an irrational idea.”
Bruce eventually got help, partly through the intervention of the Massachusetts Council on Compulsive Gambling, which made him available for a phone interview. Its hot line gets about 2,000 calls a year.
Many people won’t get that help this year, because the agency’s budget was slashed by $345,000 in the state’s recent budget cutting. The state funds antigambling programs, partly to offset the addiction some people form through playing the Massachusetts Lottery.
State Treasurer Timothy P. Cahill said that no rationale was given for the cuts, but that the decision was short-sighted and should be reversed. “This is not a good time to be cutting money from an agency that’s trying to help people curb addictions,” he said by phone yesterday. “The holidays can be very stressful and financially very troubling for people. I personally believe, in working with them, that the Massachusetts Council on Compulsive Gambling does a fantastic job of trying to help people.”
Bruce said he started gambling when he was 13. His father gambled. By high school, Bruce was spending a lot of time at race tracks and in the company of bookmakers.
He won a hockey scholarship to a college in upstate New York. He didn’t last long, though. The popular race track at nearby Saratoga offered too much temptation. He flunked out.
By then, he said, his pattern was set. He attended other colleges, but gambling, in various forms, had taken over his life. “Through those early years, it was just a process that repeated itself.”
When his fiancée gave him an ultimatum, because he had begun stealing from her, nothing much changed. He went to a Gamblers Anonymous meeting, then decided he had things under control.
Despite not finishing his education, Bruce was able to forge a successful professional life. That was a mixed blessing; it gave him that much more money to gamble. By then, he was a husband and father. Gambling was his escape, he said.
“It gave me the ability to escape responsibility, the fear of not being an adequate husband and father,” he said. Life in the casinos was far more attractive than anything he had ever known.
“The lure was that I was treated well,” he said. “When you start stealing money and become a really high roller, it’s amazing the stuff you can get. I could never stop for any substantial period of time.” When his wife filed for divorce, he didn’t look for an apartment. It was easier to move into Foxwoods, he said.
Ultimately, Bruce’s stealing led to an arrest and a prison sentence. By then, he had decided to seek counseling and began volunteering to speak to groups about the dangers of gambling. He said he has not gambled in nearly three years and credits the council with turning his life around.
“As more people gamble, it doesn’t take a rocket scientist to see that there will be more people with problems,” he said. “They are one of the safe harbors out there. . . . I can’t say enough good things about them.”
I’ve always been ambivalent about the state lottery. No one has ever really explained the contradiction of a state that publicly frowns on gambling running an enormous gambling business. Obviously, most people who buy scratch tickets will never become compulsive gamblers. However, the notion that the state must make allowances to help those who do is a sound one. That is the compact that has been broken here.
It is a bad message to send and the worst possible time to send it.
